I dont know if anyone watched this, its really good, but this section of it, gotta see this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Me9wsEz3KUkI think what leaped out at me (though didn't surprise me at all) was the child hit it. They were in the bardo,
now. The other thing, was what the man said, that it was in 'death's hands,' what happens.
Then of course what the child asked:
Boy: "What is the best path through this bardo?"
Man: "It is a question of waking up right now. Look at your own mind, look at it when it is calm and still. And when it is running wild. this is what the Buddha did, and what he taught."