About a week and a half ago, I worked with S at the other location. There is a female S and a male S at my work. And a karmic twist occured, which made me consider, what I was speaking of. How others may have 'power' within, and be careful.
What I'll do is SX for the female (X Chromosome), and SY for male S (Y Chromosome).
SY and SX worked with each other, the weekend before, at the location I'm at. She is blond and going to be sixty this year. SY told a really, bad, nasty blond joke to her, which clearly had sexual theme to it. SX was very offended, told him the joke wasn't funny. Next day worked with him, SY joked about the joke again. Then when I worked with her a day later at the other place, just her and I, she had to call over there for something, and SY joked about the joke again.
SX then called the DM, told him to get on the phone, and deal with SY or she'd file a sexual harassment complaint, she'd effing had it with him. Then SY called her. SY was being stupid, and said he thought she was a 'coward' for not saying something to him about it, calling the DM, and how she would 'ruin his career.' I told SX when she said this "what career?"
The thing is, SY is over a half a million dollars in debt. He had his own business, a partner, the business failed, the partner vested all their money into it, feels he failed the co and is responsible, which eventually the matter will end up in court if he's liable. So til then, he is 'officially' a half a million in debt. Makes me feel better knowing, I have a car loan and student loan. I bitch less to myself, thinking 'a half a million in debt. Life could be more effed up.' He has really, bad karma, he must work out. I can see karma, physically manifesting as a being, knocking on his head, all the time.
Anway, few days later, I work with SY at the other location, he and I. He gets this customer. She's like the dream customer, at first. Worked with her, for about two hours. Then she agrees to get three tallalay latex beds. They are top line, this sale was over $10,000. She was on her cell, I walk over as he's writing the invoice, I was like, 'damn.' He whispered "I am so happy." I dont blame him. A big chunk would've been made on that sale.
Sits down, to sign paperwork and pay. Joint credit account with mom. Calls mom, and mom says, "Oh, I think I need a hand in this... wait...." Tells him, she has to wait to bring mom in. And then had to leave.
This is one of those moments, in sales, its like sex. Imagine some man, hasn't had any for a decade, and the most beautiful sex goddess walks up, teases, leads on, mind gets all happy thinking about things, hopes and dreams awakening, thinking, yes, he is going to have the moment of a lifetime. Maybe I should make it more better of an analogy, have two sex goddesses leading him on. There', that should do it. Two, going to give him the ride of a lifetime.
Then, stripped down, at the moment and then, here comes the Mother of the Sex Goddesses. "Get your asses back home, before I beat the shit out of you," Then look at the sad, deflated man, as the Mother of the Universe, looks him up and down, says "No. You dont get my daughters. I was just letting them fu_ck with you, cause I don't like you." She walks off, having the power all along. That same man, wants to sit down, and die. And cry.
It was like that. Right in his hands, slip through his fingers. I thought to myself, "Is this his karma, for what he said to SX with that stupid joke?" It sure felt like it. Cause not only did he tell it, and upset her, he didn't accept responsibility.
For days before, SX had sat in the same seat, the one he'd been writing up a $10,000 transaction in, and was upset, we talked about it. How ignorant he was to not 'understand' the joke was too far. And its like, the energy of her frustration with him, was still in that seat. The one he sat down in, began writing up a huge sale of dreams, only to hear, "Oh, mom wont let me. Gotta go."
He's not blond, and though not blond, had a blond moment, as the blond joke turned on him. He had to lose a lot of money, for that joke. Karma nailed his ass to the wall.
I did feel sorry for him though. I realized, he's just an ignorant man. And karma is trying to educate him. Probably so he doesn't end up a million in debt.
And I know, Eris, is effing with him, pretty hard. She's gonna take him off the edge if he doesn't grow a brain sometimes soon.