in fact stepping outside the pain is precisely the method used in pain management techniques. There are numerous approaches to this, but 'being consumed' by the pain is what chronic pain sufferers are taught to escape.
every technique I have seen of chronic pain management focuses on this principle. One very successful technique I only heard of last week, is to focus on small sensations, like eating a small piece of food in a slow and careful way, watching the movements of the mouth, the first bite, the first taste etc. This progresses to get the sufferer to focus on the pain as it is now, objectively. Instead of taking on board the past and future pain that is constantly drawn into the moment, creating a hyper anticipatory state. What pain are you actually experiencing now? Look at at, move it around etc.
It's all about being able to stand outside oneself - the mark of a civilised person someone famous once said.
You just gave an example
contrary to what Carlos said. Ill use your example, and use Carlos's stupid logic of mental chicanery.
Carlos:
Pain ----> seeks remedy ----> because he's not in pain.
Your example
Pain----> seeks remedy -----> because they are in pain.
It's very simple. Carlos is saying, when a 'warrior' is in pain, they seek a remedy for it,
because they are not in pain. An individual who is using pain management techniques of the non-medication, non-surgical sort, such as relaxation techniques, or distraction techniques, is doing it,
because they are in pain. Carlos says a warrior does it, because they are
not in pain, they seek a way to stop the pain, and anyone who is in pain in the first place, is
not a warrior. Per that logic, the warrior is not a warrior, because they are denying their pain, yet running off to stop the pain. Easy stuff to see at the surface. Mayflow gets the audacity of the statement, why can't you?
Ecstasy is 'standing outside oneself.' That is actually what it means. However, consumed or not, sometimes the answer isnt to do that. Its to deal with the situation, head on, because if you dont, it will consume you. It will consume you if you dont grab the reigns of the situation. Illusion or not, folly or not.