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Offline TIOTIT

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Listening
« on: June 04, 2007, 11:50:04 AM »
To listen is so difficult. To listen means to be here, now. To listen means to be without any thought. To listen means to be alert and aware. If these conditions are fulfilled, only then you listen.

The mind goes on spinning a thousand and one thoughts, and the mind goes on moving — in the past, in the future. How can you listen? And whatever you listen to, it will not be right listening at all.

You will listen to something else which has not been said at all, you will go on missing that which is said — because you will not be in tune. To listen well ordinarily means to listen in a deep receptivity.

When you listen, if you are arguing, judging, saying, "Yes, this is right because it fits with my ideology and this is not right because it doesn't..."

If you are conti-nuously sorting out things inside, you are listening but you are not listening well. You are listening with your past mind interfering.

It is not you judging, it is your past. You have read and heard a few things, you have been conditioned for a few things. The past wants to perpetuate itself.

It does not allow anything new; it allows only the old that fits with it. To listen rightly means to listen obediently. This word obedience is beautiful.

You will be surprised to know that the original root from which the word obedience comes is obedire — it means 'a thorough listening'. If you listen totally you will obey.

You will not need any decision on your part. Truth is self-evident. Or as the Jewish tradition says, 'to bare your ear'.

If you have really opened your ear and there is no interference and no disturbance inside, and no distraction, you have not only opened your ear, you have opened your heart. And if the seed falls into the heart, sooner or later it will become a tree.

Ear locks have to be removed. Fear of truth is the basic lock. You are afraid of the truth because you have lived in lies... for so long that all those lies are afraid, if truth comes they will all have to leave you.

The moment you come closer to truth, the mind will become disturbed. It will create much stir, raise much dust, create a cloud around you so that you cannot hear what truth is.

Buddha has said that unless you are fearless you will not attain to truth. When you bow in a church, mosque or temple, to a statue, scripture, or tradition, where is your bowing coming from?

Just watch inside — and you will find fear, fear and fear. Faith appears only on death of fear. Faith means trust. How can a fearful man trust? He is always thinking, protecting, defending.

How can he trust? To trust, you need courage. To trust, you need to take risk. To trust, you need to move into danger.

The Chinese ideogram for crisis consists of two symbols: one means danger, another means opportunity. Yes, that moment is a critical moment when you are facing danger and opportunity, both. If you don't go into danger you will miss the opportunity.

If you want opportunity you will have to go into danger. Those who know how to live dangerously, only they are religious.

Offline Nick

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Re: Listening
« Reply #1 on: June 09, 2007, 03:53:07 AM »
Beautifully well said.

Recently, I've taken to moving deeper and deeper into pondering as a means of sharpening my mind to make my school work easier. One morning after being very immersed in this pondering on the way to work, I found it easier to concentrate and hold my thought still. Then I just listened to all the sounds and things started to make sense without me thinking about them. I kept listening all day and it got deeper and I started listening more inward as well as watching the customers at work very closely. It was very pleasureful.
At the end of the day I was struck with a realization. Normally at least once a day someone does something that aggravates me, but now I realized I would much rather listen and enjoy the subtleties of each person. I even noticed that many of the things that had been annoying became interesting as I listened more.

Of course taking this realization and carrying it over to other days and states of mind isn't so easy.
Still I meditate more on sound now and spend more time deep in pondering. Both of these seem to help a lot. 
"As long as we confuse the myriad forms of the divine lila with reality, without perceiving the unity of Brahman underlying all these forms, we are under the spell of maya..."
 -Fritjof Capra, The Tao of Physics: An Exploration of the Parallels between Modern Physics and Eastern Mysticism

 

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