"Did you know that one of the basic differences between males and females is how they approach knowledge?"
I had no idea what she meant. Slowly and deliberately, she tore off a clean sheet from my notepad and drew two human figures. One head she crowned with a cone and said that it was a man. On ehe other head, she drew the same cone, but upside down, and said that it was a woman.
"Men build knowledge step by step, " she explained, her pencil poised on the figure crown with a cone. "Men reach up; they climb toward knowledge. Sorcerers say that men cone toward the spirit; they cone up toward knowledge. This coning process limits men on how far they can reach." She retraced the cone on the first figure. "As you can see, men can only reach a certain height. Their path toward knowledge ends up in a narrow point: the tip of the cone."
She looked at me sharply. "Pay attention," she warned me and pointed her pencil to the second figure, the one with the inverted cone on its head.
"As you can see, the cone is upside down, open like a funnel. Women are able to open themselves directly, in the broad base of the cone. Sorcerers say that women's connection to knowledge is expansive. On the other hand, men's connection is quite restricted.
"Men are close to the concrete," she proceeded, "and aim at the abstract. Women are close to the abstract and yet try to indulge themselves with the concrete."
Esperanza to Florinda Donner
Being in Dreaming Chapter 15