You are welcome to burst any and all bows and listen in the process. Do you think you can break free while attached to other people?
To begin with I am free, at my work at the University I have had my own Agenda for 10 years. I am my own boss and the Lord is my supervisor. So I dare to care. Obviously in contrast to you. Passion, heart ... well not exactly, but in your dictionary - wisdom. Wisdom is equal to love, there is no other way to get in tune with the World and the Universe, but love and wisdom.
You know, I read that quote of yours, that everything that you love may hurt you, and/or keep you stuck. I read that 40 years ago, so I can, by my Life experience, simply dismiss it, that is what I do. The whole idea in that "attachment koan" is very left side. It is useful for the spiritual first or second class. While I am in the last ring (the last class that is).
Like Odin said about his Ravens, when they should fly out in the morning across the World, and then report back to this one-eyed Sir.
To understand the following quote from Odin/Oden/Wodan one must know that the pair of Ravens Hugin and Munin was a she and a he. Hugin means "Apt" or "Disposed" while Munin is best translated as "Memory"or "Recollection".
"De hette Hugin och Munin (håg och minne). Varje dag i gryningen sände Oden ut sina korpar att flyga över världen. De lyssnade till allt som sades och flög sedan tillbaka till Oden och viskade i hans öra vad de hade hört."
"Their names were Hugin and Munin. Every day at dawn Odin sent out his ravens to fly across the World. They listened to all that was said and then flew back to whisper in his ear what they had heard."
”Hugin och Munin
flyger var dag
över den mäktiga jorden
Jag är rädd att Hugin inte kommer åter
men min oro är större för Munin”
"Hugin and Munin flies every day across the Mighty Earth
I am afraid that Hugin might not return
but my worries are greater for Munin."