dance your hate. dance your love. the point is to dance. whatever your dance is.
You're obviously not a dancer. A real dancer knows how to express themselves in dance, a little bit better.
Dancing isn't just for the sake of it, or being trapped in some duality like 'dance your love or hate.' You dance from the center, like anything else - just as the heart chakra lies in the center - that is where a dancer, dances from, and expresses by turning it all inside/out. And what she does, is bring that forth, so that those who witness - want to get up, and do the same thing.
Dance isn't a solo deal, at all. Even when in a studio, by onself, a dancer is never, ever alone. Spirit is always present, or they are not, a real dancer. They're just, 'going through the motions' and trapped in the mechanical gestures.