That quote definitely applies to me - I do the structure thing first, then plunge. That's my technique. And I do see women plunge first. The problem for men is that they often won't plunge after they have walked to the end of their cone, and likewise women won't bother with structure after their bath. They just want to plunge again - it is obvious why we men have to keep the women in check with all those rules and corsets. Otherwise they'd never stop plunging into everything. But the women have a serious duty here, to seduce the men into stripping off their cones.
Makes you realise that Women of Knowledge is an oxymoron - it should be Women with Brushes.