Fair enough, let this moment become past.
However, while one cannot see the future for another nor shape it, the other's patterns, and repetitive low frequency actions are obvious and clearly visible.
It is natural that they have been, are and will be challenged.
There will never be any guarantees of such challenge not repeating. Inability to fully realise this is a strongest guarantee for the flare-up to repeat.
Realization does not arise out of words. Understanding does not come from mere suggestions.