No, it's not. Compassion does not mean pity and crying together.
If person is stuck in patterns and hell-bent to go from bad to worse, compassion gains a different meaning.
I'm talking about this quote, the one in question:
In our practice of kindness it is valuable not to speculate concerning the motivation of others. Voicing one’s personal criticisms of what we imagine to be the motivation of other individuals is merely the expression of subjectivity."
Speculating on motivations and voicing personal criticisms on them. Is the expression of subjectivity.
I agree that compassion does not mean pitying or crying. But compassion should always be used with kindness.