There is another aspect I want to mention.
In the legal system, if a person bashes someone into paraplegia, or murders someone, it's as if there exists a tacit acknowledgement that it is within our acceptable framework - sure they are guilty, and will go to gaol, but sentences are condensed somewhat comparatively.
But, if that person is convicted of paedophilia, or in times not so long past, a woman murdered her husband out of domestic violence despair, they are given much greater sentences (just heard a programme on the radio about this yesterday).
Somehow, our society sees the violent bashing by a male, especially associated with drink, as distasteful yet acceptable, even if the victim is dead or crippled for life. But the sexual abuse of a child, crimes by women or black people, are considered outrageously unacceptable and sentences reflect this.
It is not fair to suggest the latter should receive lower opprobrium by society, but I am amazed at why the former is subtly condoned in some way, as being 'understandable': males will be violent - it's just their nature.