Della/Orlando did a really good post over her place on Death as Advisor and morbidity if all wish to check it out:
http://forums.delphiforums.com/shamansrattle/messages?msg=2013.1I dont think death is a morbid deal, its a natural process. However, when unnatural events occur, or even conflict with the will of another(s), then may have to go to death as advisor and say "can't accept this - what can be done." I think if someone's not dead, something can be done, if we probe hard enough. That's probably how death teaches us, too, in such ways. In a way, how death taught me over the last month, dealing with this drama. Have to admit, death is an ultimate teacher. I don't really fear death; I can fear death taking away someone of my own which death has no business of doing. That's not in the plan, and I refuse to accept it.
Anyway, that's the post. Me, sure, if a train is seen a few feet away from me, not much can be done, but then there's the other, if you get a glimpse, see a way, an opening - then you've got time before the train hits, and you can shift things in another direction. I think death can, and does teach, we're not always meant to be helpless to what could manifest. That's how we learn about how the will operates when aligned with spirit.