Well i have some news now .
We had a fight and broke up . actually i don;t know if thats true because i don't feel
i was fighting so much . although i was stern and did not submit .
It started with me saying , "you are indirectly manipulative sometimes ".
i am refering to having to the dualistic approach to energy and struggle.
i really tried hard to keep that clear.
it was met with much fight .
apparently those were some key words . Biting down hard upon them
She kept asking what do you mean , each time i tried again and again
even saying things like do you know the polarities and about power struggles etc
and that we can speak openly about issues , and introspection
without it having to be attacking somebody
from with in the middle .
this and also i told her you have zero introspection , and that i am not having a go
at you when i speak about something that is happening , that we could speak
without it having to be good / bad , wrong ./right , black / white
the more i explain the more i meet hostility
later being told i am dark inside and just look good on the outside because of what
i said ,
i am hurt , i might be confused ,
yet i resign to just leave it .
we spoke after on the phone the next day .
after some time she says whats something wrong ?
i said yes , i give up , i give up there is no point talking to you about it any more .
you tell me i am black inside
and
/she even spoke of hitting me over the head with something , a candle holder on
the drawers . '
i am left completely dumfounded . i cannot believe we were even having the same
conversation .
after we hang up . its over .
next i get the text about asshole this .
i text back , ok you have hurt me thats enough now leave me alone .
she replies , something about what she thinks also , back .
so its done , i felt like it can go no further , and the more it plays out the less
anything becomes over come or done about anything .
that was three days ago now .
i have given up on it .